The Aftermath Of Using The Backbone…..
For the people pleaser, an occasional use of one’s backbone can be the most empowering and exhilarating feeling in the world! For one brief moment we people pleasers join the rest of the badasses of…
Author: Victoria
A Single Shade of Grey…..
Sometimes I look in the mirror and often do not recognize myself. In one brief glimpse I seem to be able to see everything thing I have ever done….good and bad. I see the newest…
The People Pleasing Queen Who Sits On The Throne Of Dumbassery….
Hello and welcome to my first lecture. For those who are not people pleasers…I would ask you to stand up, let the spring loaded seat bottom snap back up into position and make your way…
The Art of Failure…..
Ah failure comes in many forms….. The failure of buying the wrong wedding dress….. Prom dress looks bad…. Wedding hair is questionable….. Hair color is unfortunate…… Homeschooled kids aren’t reading fast enough….. I could go…
Goodbye My Ryanault…..
As I continue on my way I pass where Ryanault and I have been. I miss him. There was another but he was not my Ryanault. He is gone now at my request….I could not…
Our “Wonderful”, Intrusive Friend Named Anxiety….
Today is one of those wonderful, high anxiety days. Well really the whole week has been. Houseguests do not bring out the best in me and neither does anxiety….. Someone didn’t return my text- they…
The Wandering Road
I’m stumbling down a road, my feet are bleeding and they hurt. I’m thirsty. The sun bakes me and is hot. I think of my life. Then I remember a dream. Or was it a…
Hello World!
I am starting this blog as a way to heal. I have many secrets, most of which no one may ever know……I need a place to sort and express. I hope that someone who may…