The People Pleasing Queen Who Sits On The Throne Of Dumbassery….

Hello and welcome to my first lecture. For those who are not people pleasers…I would ask you to stand up, let the spring loaded seat bottom snap back up into position and make your way to the coffee shop for an overpriced sandwich. I am not talking to you…

For those left, you are my audience. Yes you…3rd row, 5th seat not making eye contact….I am speaking to you, my fellow spineless pushover. And you wearing the “I am a big P**sy” t-shirt, well you know I am talking to you…I have the same shirt at home.

Well maybe this is not a lecture. Maybe this is simply a rally with flaming torches as we dance to Twisted Sister “We’re not gonna take it”. But I am TIRED of living my life saying yes. I am SICK and tired actually. God did not make me to be this person I have become. I have actually become a broken toy that I put into the yard sale of life in the basket of FREE. And quite frankly it is kinda of bullsh*t. Hey you want a arsenic sandwich??…well sure….sounds good! Hey you want to do an overpriced activity when you are exhausted? Sure sign me up!! Wanna talk when you feel quiet? Wanna text in complete obligation? Wanna? Wanna? Wanna? SURE because I only have a vocabulary of YES….

I want to start saying NO!!! Want to sell my used things I left behind without asking?? NO!! Want to go out when I am tired? NO!! Want to spend money I do not have? How about a big glass of Hell No!

NO, NO, NO AND NO!!!! Whats for lunch? Hell no sandwich…with a side of NO fries. Thirsty? Here is a bottle of NO….so refreshing. Do I want or need you in my life you person of hurt and rejection….NO, NO and NO.

What has become of us people that we have come to a point of just being kicked in the teeth and smiling about it?? I am actually dumbfounded at what I have morphed into. I mean I once shoved a man down a flight of stairs for bullying me in school! STAIRS!!!!!! And now I sit and realize I put my balls in a box, on a high shelf, under lock and key…..

Well no more…..with God’s help I will pull them down and blow the 15 years of dust off them and reattach….and learn to start saying No……